love is myness, unlimited, unconditional. nonselective, non exclusive, universal , experience, being living

if not ,it's------ pretense, mask, lust, attraction, base instinct for sensual pleasure ,selfishness, sentiment, fleeting play of mind

“Lack of love is the reason for the existence of all the qualities such as anger, hatred, jealousy etc.”

and all kinds of things looking like /and called by this word'' love '' are no substitute to the love you described here

all the lovers and beloved better note and come out of delusion of conditional love, faking , self deceiving and deceiving others

I did similar thinking, on the subject and thru experience i understood what true love is once for all---that experience is unique, lasted for a few minutes--and this has been enough for me for a life time, ''a life in love with life''

And knew that all cupidity is only stupidity, though both stupidity and cupidity are divine for the clear and sole purpose of procreation

But not to be duped into deception that this '' i love you '' thing is the end all and be all --under the influence of media mania, presenting commercial nudity encashing this baser cravings or sense gratification , and deteriorating values in the society , with skin exposure becoming the symbol of top culture

Love is god

love realized if god realized

god realized in the deepest samadhi reached thru meditation

coming out of meditation, one is totally a different person,

experiencing love to all in the universe from the nearest kith kin

to all the creatures in the vicinity, and far universe,

wanting to share his new found feeling of

--all of you and all this are/is mine and me, none other,

this feeling goes beyond all barriers and biases of every label,

truly bringing all in to one's heart .

this is a matter of direct experience,

no description can transmit the experience to the reader/listener.

 

if you really want to live in in the luxury of plenty, inexhaustible, unconditional love

then take this key, and open the door of the supreme reserve bank,

become the owner of it , and overwhelm all in its great experience,

 

be not lifelong , simply, hoping, groping, searching, surmising,

thinking, postponing, blogging ,and dialoging.

This elaboration emphasizes the need of the direct experience of god/absolute---what ever label you call it -------and nothing less can give that experience

 

Then how is that child is full of love with parents with friends with strangers with dolls with dogs cats witth even with throwing things aside or crawling or falling

answer is simple

he is in god

state original, hence in state of true love;

 

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"We need one another indeed to live in the world...None can live in isolation".... if you mean "isolation" as staying away from other people, yes.... To me, isolation has broad sense. Isolation is the greatest state one can attain. He is isolated from his body, mind and intellect... In that sense, isolation is preferred and possible.

 

 

all should rise to the level of saying emphatically--

i love my neighbors’ wife

i love my neighbor

i love my country my earth my sun my moon my stars my universe

as dear as my limbs, hands, feet, head, , all its good bad beauty ugly external internal

it's nothing

it's just living

 

my experience totally confirms the validity of this definition

Sriharibhakthirasamritasindhu

defines love

thus

samyam masrunitha swantho mamathvathishayankitha

bhaava sa eva saandraathmaa budhyhi prema ni gadyathe

the wise call that as prema, love, thru which the heart becomes tender

and in the mind mamatha bhavana, [ my-ness], is created

[i was pleasantly surprised to stumble up on this definition after decades of my experience, and my direct knowledge of what love is or can be

it was almost the same experience i did have,

and on certain of the days when the system gets sufficient degree of purity this experience repeats and gradually stabilizes, as the sadhana matures

the first experience of this state is the beginning of the true love story

who are the partners

i am the manmatha, universe is the rathi

my unmanifest purusha, and the manifeted universe are the love pairs

in such a state , where is the place for any negativity

there is gulf between this and the usual sensual attraction

in this devotee becomes an vunmaththa, attains to the rasika roopa of bhagavan

those many a bhakthas who have experienced this, have been there in bhaarath

these bhakthas have fabulously , beautifully described krishna and his madhura leelas , krishna having been their aalambana

one such bhaktha shikhamai is leelasuka[bilvamangala]

I am extremely happy to find ar is one person who went in to this enigma penetratingly, layer by layer and arrived at the truth, the true definition of love, mostly i find in many write ups the authors are not clear, hence in confusion and can succeed in confusing the readers

Hee the partners i and god , i and universe are in soul to soul relation

neither the distance, nor vicinity nor the condition matters

and soul to soul true love is the basis for any relation including the most critical relation the conjugal relation between man and wife

the sensory affairs has its place, but soul to soul adds the true flavor color charm durability irrespective of age or old age

a couple in soul relation surrenders unconditionally to each other and such couple really enjoys double heaven of senses to the ultimate and beyond the senses in love till old age and death

my observation is the basis on this, though i am not an authority on marital subject since i being brahma chari

and hence

i can see as an uninvolved seer all the intricacies based on the experience of absolute which forms the full basis for any experience out of nava rasas

Ssy ------rishi prabhakars course provides the great experience of love abundantly, the details i am not disclosing, it is to be undergone and experienced first hand

love, this is one basic topic i liked most , me having unveiled fully the everlasting enigma

bst, and rishi prabhakar

i had his association in ou, hyd, on super memory seminar and sathsang, and games

great simple guy, absolute free intimate loving,

also i met first time when he was giving a course in bst

he gave time and talked to be, no fear, just casual,

it inspired me to be with ssy , to teach cssy ---all great experience,

all should rise to the level of saying emphatically--

i love my neighbor’s wife

i love my neighbor

i love my country my earth my sun my moon my stars my universe

as dear as my limbs, hands, feet, head, , all its good bad beauty ugly external internal

it's nothing

it's just living

  Let bharath shine in preserving the chathurasrama dharma in the humam life ,

brahmacharya, gruhastha, vanaprastha, sanyas

building endures all weathers if built on strong foundation

the first of the ashrams is the foundation of life

in this stage, the youth is given the upanayan sanskar ,

one of the most vital of shodasha sanskars ,

to get the glimpse of the light of self realization ,

and having effectively completed the rigorous tenure,

one becomes eligible to adopt any options ,

and is in a capacity to rise to unlimited heights in spiritual and worldly attainments

  Love

Mother's love is a lesson and inspiration to grow into universal love,

towards being a loving mother to the universe,

loving every one, every being , every thing, every process, every phenomenon,

in true acceptance, irrespective of

what all the children do / do not , good / bad everything,

unperturbed, unfluttered, unupset,

but wishing all good to all at all times at all events

  let’s forgive some say,

 why anyone need that favor

why you need to forgive

 it's just assuming i am a holy cow

i am holier than thou

can anyone forgive any one really ?

never, none can forgive

even god cannot forgive

he says ---mercilessly-------'' sow and reap ''

 which is to say

sob and weep

 and ignorant says god is merciful

no, not at all, god is the most unattached ,

 beyond raaga dwesha, not loving not hating

If god is merciful, why not he come and listen to the poor

 law of karma is working,

why did the sins committed in the first place

 Forgive business is a self deception whether asking or giving---does not work in the real life

 What is the lesson

Simply, mind your business,

 

learn from all young and old

thru their good or bad deeds

 

you do not do such mistake in your life

  

love valentine or more
True love is unconditional

not exclusive to one beloved 
not limited to momentary sensual pleasure, 

not between only male female
not for reviving by gifts /greetings

not to for reminding only one day in a year, 
it's an undying love, it's a dove living ever

its a gift of god in self realization
bliss every moment, day and night, 24x365x100

sharing , spreading joy unlimited, to all in the universe

in the all inclusive true love--myness -- to the whole universe

   

Love emanates from the heart

of the Beloved, 
who is residing ever in the heart inside
just a silent whisper, 
is all enough to make it to flood out, 

to spread out, 

limitless,

to all, regardless

   Love  why do we love

how love manifests, in what forms
why one likes to possess what one loves
what is love exactly
what factors make a thing/ person lovable
why different people love different things,

and in different degrees of intensities
what makes a mother to love her child
what makes child to love mother
why all love to play , rather than work
why some people love hard work 
how a man becomes a fan, 
what are the things we love
who are the people we love 
why we love a flower
why we love to read good books,

   

Love is beyond understanding.

One can not arrive there through understanding alone

it happens in the'' myness '',
we love some one / some thing ,
since our heart says they are ''mine, a part of me ,''

a child is loveable not only to mother, but to others as well , 
since one directly feels the belonging for child in the heart,
though understanding does tell that, that child belongs to others

   Love unconditional

One fails to see difference between unconditional love [divine], and conditional love [sense based]

one particular flower is lovable, only as long as it is beautiful, fresh , conditional it is

but the unconditional love is there for just '' flower'' , any flower, 
flower then is the soul of flower, not any particular flower

one must be at the soul level to experience the soul level of the object of love

then it is unconditional always for anything , good or bad,
then no conflicts are possible, no pain results

   Love

i love myself, I am most selfish 
If I love only a specific few, I perish

it is limited, it exclude all others, 
I lose a lot, I am ruined,

I want all
I want all love from all

So I love myself 
myself is all, includes all

You, me, he, she, it, they, near, far, 
present, past, live, inert, big, small

All is me , 
all are mine,

Most precious is My selfishness 
It is my best virtue , making me most virtuous

  Love

Ramanuja first became inebriated, with love inside by the grace of guru and power of manthra.he became unmaththa and shared the secrets with hundreds, love dominating the reason , crossing all limits, limitations, instructions, finally conquered the heart of his guru too, who too overcame the boundaries , taking him and all to his expanded domain of love. the essence to be noted is love can be given only when one overflows with it, by taking a dip in the ocean of love within, in the reaching of absolute the home of infinite love"

"Maharishi---a cup which overflows only can give tea to the surrounding''

first let's understand what is love and how love sprouts within.

then we have the abundance of it to share with all in the universe, not with only a few , in a few stray encounters , but with all in every moment in every movement"

 

"So i want to re arrange this your -- “Love is when other persons happiness is more important that our own”to a new version “Love is when our own happiness is more important than that of others”our happiness radiates to others drenching them in stream of love"

 Love       Peace leads to love

love leads to service

service without love is no service,

without love it is only obligation,

compulsion, imposition , drudgery

  Love

 we love one or a thing , since we glimpse a degree of perfection in them if not we do not love

hence in the world both love hate do exist

"That heck itself is the thinnest ray of beauty, perfection, goodness [ sathyam shivam sundaram ]which reaches the heart directly , opens its gates, without your knowledge/effort

 

suddenly you find you are in the moon light, you find you have fallen in love with that thing or that someone or that some talk or anything whatever you loved , may not be equally loved by all , those few are the luckiest, who are selected by that light to dance upon them

  

Love yourself most

it overflows to all

  Love

Sensual love and divine love, are two different things

divine love is beyond the physical relationships"

 

"Love is a misnomer for likes

likes/unlikes are as a result of 6, kaama krodha lobha moha mada mathsarya,

there is distinct word , prema, for supreme love,

 and kaama for sensual based likes

6 will continue till lifelong until and unless are subjugated thru sadhana

if not likes unlikes persist

  

Love is the nectar, and love is the only cure of ailing humanity

  Love

in self love, all self talk , inner conversation, intentions , motivations. will become sweetest , and of supreme quality

self love elevates, ennobles every level of existence, ----the behavior, physical actions, the speech, the thinking, feelings,and even the subtlest emotions

in self love one's behavior will be mutually elevating, physical actions and movements become light and beautiful like graceful divine postures,and charming dance gestures

the speech becomes the vedic truth, poetry and song

the feelings turn into friendliness, compassion,

the emotions rise to devotion and all in bliss

in self love it is a life in nonchalance nothing to bother, not to bother others, not get bothered just a free bird, off the ground ,up in the high sky probably in silent tunes a jonathan seagull

  Love

Can we fall in love with life The Way It Is exactly now?

it's the essence of self realization, okness as it is ,total acceptance, no reservations, no waiting for one fine morning

no trying ,no modifying, no fault finding, it's just being

  

Love is fullness

fullness overflowing is love

this blog is that overflowing fullness,

chana  maha is the seer of this age, who gave expression to the fullness, in fullness, hence the blog is fullness, this is an example of , rather yet another example from her of vedic truths getting blurted out in innocence, the seer not knowing what profundities coming out from depths, but just allowing that flow to happen in short a gem of blog in st, a great contribution"

"He, the master maharaj ji is the writer, cm s the pen , a golden pen pen does not know what it is writing it is allowing the ink to flow freely,"

 

"''both are full''-------------tide pulling out, deep waters to roll upon us

of one ocean, fullness, fullness coming out from fullness

poornaath poornamudachyarthe"

 

"Can we love the tide pulling out

as much as we yearn for deep waters to roll upon us,this again is a description of the vedic''both are full''"

 

"In this i see cmah , kishan, singing geetha fire is hot, it burns, but it purifies the gold agnim, the fire of knowledge purifies the remnants of karma

the oceanic waters getting purified by the sun, rising to the sky and showering nectar ,amrit ,"

 

"Ghunguroo [anklets] song says this great thrill of experience in terms of the lover getting her hearts desire fulfilled in the union with beloved, with a dance so wild and free , without subdued of shyness, that the material matters, ghunguroos shattered .

 

god is love

human love becomes a divine love in its sublime state, inspiring creative poets to sing romantic episode like radha and sham,"

 

"You are conveying silence

the ultimate purpose of any communication is to share silence medium can be any"

 

"It's just a life in nonchalance, effect of gaining one glimpse of absolute for just a moment.

instant mukthi, freed from all limiting tendencies and inhibitions , an existence in absolute freedom, joy, love, self sufficiency, having all powers to do, yet, not needing to do a thing"

 

"Mohe aayi na jug se laajMain itna zor se naachi aaj, ki ghungroo toot gayetoday all the shyness in me has left i danced so wildly so much that

my anklets broke away"

 

"''Broken-hood''the little bird has come out breaking the egg, and is flying free in the infinite sky no more need of the pieces"

 Love

maharishi on love

''In the world, love for this, for this, for this–love for something is due to its value. Love for a flower is ‘it is so good, very good smell and good shape and this’. But when the flower fades, and is not so good to look at and doesn’t give fragrance, then the love stops. We cast it off, throw it away. Wherever there is relative consideration, there the love is relative. Where there is no consideration, it is spontaneous, and reason cannot be attributed to it, reason cannot analyse it, then it is absolute love.

  

love..can it be selective, ??

can it be localized , discreet, finite,??

limited to a few things ??

or for few beings ??,

or in a few situations,??

if yes,

then it is not love, it is only likes/dislikes

whims fancies, conditional, obligatory,

if no,

then it is love, it is real,

since love is a state of growth

it is born out of enlightenment

love is always universal

for all the beings , for all the things

it's the state of my-ness,

in which universe is felt as one's own body and limbs

ie it is a feature of the state of existence as ''universe is me, i am the universe'''

  Love      i love you all ,i love st, in all

i love every pm call

i love every blog ,every dilog
i love to again and again in and out log

i love to lose, love to gain
for me no pain , it's all gain , 

cool i am like rain
i am a passing cloud, like to rain and rain 

i come on plain fields
i come make them rich to yield

i come in many shapes, multi colors
i come in thick and thin , as many vapors

i go as per wind, some times unwind 
on others i have no mind to mind,

i mind my business, 
all in easiness

let st take action 
or rest in inaction

i will not stop my action 
i have no fights no factions

endlessly i write
effortless is my trite

i have ambition to fill 
every site with my blogs drill

you read , no read 
i do not become red

oh st, my color too is green
always with bright sheen 

having all said 
now i become dead

may be i take a rebirth
again in this st earth

  Love

Divine love or spiritual love , words apart, is a unconditional, universal, all encompassing, uninhibitted, unimposed feeling seeing and behaving as if all are no different than oneself of course, there may be a degree of difference,

1 divine love of x may be for his ista devatha, like krishna , with a name, form,attributesso x may not love other beings in the same way as he loves Krishna

2 spiritual love is unconditional, universal not exclusive to one god, but all inclusive, every one is same lovable as krishna but all divine love grows to become spiritual love all spiritual love treats all as divine, and so loves krishna and many more gods, or humans, or creatures animate or inanimate there are cases, human love on one's lover grows beyond sensual, to spiritual love , in this the lover and beloved dwell in each others hearts,though they may be away physically irrespective of live or dead

  Love

  It is that yearning and love that brings intense joy that can only be felt but not expressed in words.''

-----true

but When we feel deeply hurt, we cry due to pain ,physical /mental .

at this moment we can’t cry in ecstasy of God’s infinite love and benediction

since that incident of hurt causing pain is due to the reason that we lost his'' live ''contact for a while

if one is in his ''live'' love and benediction, such incidents do not happen at all,

our getting into that incident is a signal from god, that we must gain back his live connection which makes us hurt proof , safe, secure in his loving hands making us cry in ecstasy once again

  Love      why do we love

how love manifests, in what forms
why one likes to possess what one loves
what is love exactly
what factors make a thing/ person lovable
why different people love different things,

and in different degrees of intensities
what makes a mother to love her child
what makes child to love mother
why all love to play , rather than work
why some people love hard work 
how a man becomes a fan, 
what are the things we love
who are the people we love 
why we love a flower
why we love to read good books,

  Love

Conditional love-- sensual desire

Conditional love is simply , sensual desire —-for gratification for survival need like hunger, thirst, procreation, worldly knowledge, wealth—-and is marginal, has diminishing utility, dies once the prop is off. old people have no charm, and no more as lovable as they were as in prime age , hence all evil products , every day in the news, i need not add

unconditional love –probably none has experienced, though many have conjured up 
or sang about it , or read about it with great interest
— i find very serious to down right funny expressions on their sincere surmises

poor are they no their fault

and i say most of them have innocently, or ignorantly have mixed up, and perfectly are in confusion on what is love and desire

And there are not proper words for love in its two extreme values, also word prema got confused.
media movies and love stories are the cause.
one extreme it is lust, kaam, other extreme it is manmohan, sublime charm the heart longs for it

And that is divine love, where love=god. or god =love, this is missing in life , its place is taken over by money. so money is now the new manmohan

Concluding 
divine love can be experienced in life only thru self realization in which is born the myness which is all inclusive , the universe itself is mine, and truly lovable and truly soul filling in which one feels the image of himself in every animate inanimate, and finds himself totally one with all , no negativity, but full undiminishing utility when all is truly friendly. he sings dances, living a life above the earthly plane

Here one sang
kyo kiseeko pathar maaru kon paraya hai
sheesh mahal me ik ik chehara apna lagtha hai
deevaronse milkar rona acha lagthaa hai
ham bhee pagal hojayenge aisa lagtha hai

Now question yourself ”—did you experience it?if yes, then you are blessed
if no, pray god, to show you a way .

  Love

Maharishi Mahesh Yogi on love and ego



'''We are not responding to this instant, if we are judging any aspect of it.

The ego looks for what to criticize. This always involves comparing with the past.

But love looks upon the world peacefully and accepts.
The ego searches for short comings and weaknesses.

Love watches for any sign of strength. It sees how far each one has come, and not how far he has to go.

How simple it is to love, and exhausting it is always to find fault, for every time we see a fault we think something needs to be done about it.

Love knows that nothing is ever needed but more love.
It is what we all do with our hearts that affects others most deeply.
It is not the movements of our body or the words within our minds that transmit love.

We love from heart to heart.''' 

  Love

Divine love, it is

 

towards every being, 
towards every thing in the universe

 

happens instantly, abundantly, infallibly 
at the first sight of god ,

 

it's the true love at first sight 
unconditional, undifferentiated

 

no steps, no evolution, 
no stages, no gradual

 

it's the direct effect 
like light as soon as switched on

 

instantly all activities become a child play
a play with self , a play with god himself

 

For a child every thing is charming, beautiful, 
interesting, new, enjoyable, exciting, wonderful, great,

 

man is a child after all, 
likes to play as much as possible

 

no fear, no devotion, no hesitation 
no distance ,no formalities, no reverence ,

 

no regard, no manipulation, no interference

no interpretation, no intervention

 

just a waterfall , a flood
noisy, tumultuous , even mischievous

 

but truly gracious , 
pure, genuine, perfect

 

it's the love of god, 
it's the god himself